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Summary of Question:Re: Should i tell him im in love?
Date Posted:Sunday, 4/30/2000 8:28 AM MDT

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I am not sure who you are in love with or whom you want to tell about your love.

I will guess that you are a woman and that you have strong feelings for some man. If this is the case, then I would give the following advice.

Keep these feeling to yourself for starters. If you need to share, then talk to an older woman,Mom, auntie etc. Do your own internal study and evaluate what is causing this response? Ask yourself, "what do I need, attention, recognition.......????? What do you want from telling this person that you love him?

It sounds to me like "desperate love". Strong feelings are strong feelings...usually based on a strong need. What do you need?

Are you good friends with this guy? Is he ready for an emotional declaration? You could put yourself in a vulnerable position by being so open. He could embbarass you, by telling you to bug off, make fun of you with friends, or take advantage of your emotional state. Most probably you would scare the guy off.

Women tend to express their feelings emotionally. Men tend not to be so aware of their feelings, and are not so emotionally expressive.

My advice is to consider this....Men love a woman that has mystique. Don't be so open and vulnerable. You may be very innocent. So, maintain your poise, hold your head up and find the love inside yourself for your own self. Breathe very long and deep and regain some composure. Ride on this feeling for a while(keep it to yourself) until you feel more composed and then see how things look to you then.

God bless you.


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