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|Summary of Question:||Re:Masturbation Question|
|Category:||General Q's from Non-Sikhs|
|Date Posted:||Tuesday, 12/30/2008 9:14 PM MST|
I am Peter and I had posted earlier.After going through forum,I came to conclusion that an Amritdhari Sikh can masturbate but he should take care that it should not be in excess.First,he should avoid it.Secondly,he should take care that if he does, it should not change his direction of mind or taking him to bad side.Then he should do more physical exerxise and yoga so as to recover the loss and try to avoid it further.He should then started concetrating on meditation.Am I right?
It is not a sin but it simply put you to loss.My next question which is quite similar to it or have told often but still.......is that So an Amritdhari Singh can masturbate but he should keep in control?Please answere this time.
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It's not about masturbation. It's about addictive behaviours. First you have the thought or desire to masturbate. This comes before the action itself. In other words, it is a decision. So how you deal with your energies (sexual and otherwise) on an ongoing basis is a matter of choice. The whole "Can" or "Can't" routine is an incorrect supposition. It's not about rules and it's not about "should." It's about taking responsibility for yourself and thoroughly understanding the sequences, consequences and results of the actions you decide to take.