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Summary of Question:	I M Confused!
Category:	General Q's from Non-Sikhs
Date Posted:	Friday, 11/07/2003 9:11 AM MST

Sat siri akal ji!

I m really thankful to you guyss... out there! I have someone to consult all the time.
My problem is i m living with a hindu friend and some of his friends come over and they smoke in the house. I have tried explaining them not to do so but they hardly listen, i really feel bad my gutka is also kept in my room. What should i do? My room mate smokes too. I really feel guilty all the time please suggest me what should i do?
Thaking you all so much. God Bless you all


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It seems like you have 3 choices. 1- Talk to your room mate and see what his position is. If he is respectful of your needs, ask him to help you enforce the no smoking in the house rule. Give it a trial period. If it is not working, you will have to consider the other two options. 2- Let go of your need and live in duality. 3- Find a new room mate or live alone. You have to examine your own consciousness. How important to you is your Truth, your identity, your values, your integrity? Maybe you need to find some other friends that reflect your values. Ask Guru to give you guidance and courage to do what is right. GTKK