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Summary of Question:	love
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Monday, 10/09/2000 9:03 PM MDT

who ever is gonna read this, sat sri akal.

like most 18 yr old girls..im going through this phase now...actually there
have beeen many phases....
im in love with this guy...we have been together for 4 yrs now. we have gone through alot in this 4 yrs. He has betrayed me time and again...going out wif other girls and stufff, and i just keep forgiving him, coz he still seems very sincerely in love with me. he has changed a little....the girls are not there any more, but he just broke up with me in june saying that he wants to concentrate onli on himself and his interests...and that we can be friends...
but we are still behaving like a couple.....and i know he loves me, but im not sure if guru ji will let him be the "one"...coz i reaaly love this guy...and i wanna spend my life with him...i know there are better guys, but i dont care...
im being reaaly adamant on this guy...am i wrong?

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Relax. If you are attached to this guy and you choose him and you suffer because of it...well, that was your choice.

If you let him go and you concentrate on yourself and your expansion and exploration of your world...well, then if your relationship was meant to be, then it still will be.

You are so full of feelings and emotions. Do not behave out of desperation. Ralax. Rejoice, read Jap Ji Sahib in English and get some clarity in your life. To chase a guy is a waste. Let him prove his caliber and consciousness to you.
There are plenty of good men around. You are presantly stuck on him and he is not really stuck on you. Do you really want a husband that cheats on you?

Anyway, relax and research your depth and your caliber and be patient and the right thing will happen. Read Jap Ji in English and love your Guru and trust Guru to arrange your love life. If God can rotate the earth and make the sun rise, He certainly can care for your needs too.