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Summary of Question:	amrit tari and his life
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Friday, 11/12/1999 10:52 AM MST

SAT SRI AKAL!

I HAVE ONE QUESTION CAN AMRIT TARI BOY MAKE A GIRL FRIEND AND CAN HE GO ON DATES WITH HERE OR NOT?

Dear Tejbeer Singh Ji,

You can do anything you like but is it the right thing to do. As an Amritdari it is not ok to date women due to the fact that it leads for the most part to Premarital sex. This is such an involved question you understand. It all comes down to intention! If you are having a relationship with a woman and it is soley a friendship and you go out together either with friends or alone then I suppose that is ok. But if you are going out with a woman soley with the intention of having sex with her and then figuring out where you want to go in the relationship, then that is abusive to her and to yourself. You should protect your honor as an AmritDhari at all times. It should not arise that you did this and this or whatever. You are there to lead an exemplary life. You should not have any improper relationship with a woman. With that said, you are the one who will live with your decisions and you will be the one who will have to decide what is right and wrong. But the answer to your question is no. So if you listen to your conscience whether you are an Amritdari or not and please do the right thing. I hope that this has answered your question. Thank you

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