I can't answer this question. But I've got this link you can go to. It explains in details why we should marry a sikh male/female. I hope it helps. You know that question use to nag at me too. But as I got older I got over it.hehe. naa I just learned..that THe one and only way I can join with GOD after death is..with the help of a partner who'd have the same beliefs. The rest will be explained in the URL. I hope after you read that or browse through it..THat question doesn't nag at you nomore. There's a lot of other good stuff on this site!. IKONKAR.COM