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Summary of Question:	Urgent Help Need It
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Friday, 12/02/2005 3:18 PM MST

SSA i dont know what to do and who to talk to? but thing is that my bf is blackmailing me. He want me to go with him to the motel for couple of hours for sex (i am very sorry to use this word)other wise he will tell my parents and my husband about our relationship. I am very depressed rite now. My final is about to start and i can't study. After his marriage i dont meet him but he froce me lot and i met him one time. but when i got married i never seen him. he is really mad at me.he saw in the market and now he is keep emailing me to meet him, otherwise he will call my home and meet my husband. (my parents and my husband dont know about him)Please help me. i dont want to mess my married life. plz help me.I dont want to meet him. but he is not listening to me. plz help me. somebody plz take me out from this sitution.

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So if I understand this right. You had an affair with this guy before you both got married to different people. He wants to continue your affair and you don't. He is threatening to tell your family and husband. Have you told him it goes both ways and you can tell his family and wife? You may have to tell your husband that you had an affair before you got married and ask for his understanding. If your relationship is strong he will understand that what happeneed before is over and done with ...that you are faithful to him now. It's better to be honest and ask your husband to help you with this. If he got on the phone with this guy and told him to leave you alone, I'll bet it would be over. Ask Guru to give you both strength and unity. Let us know how it goes. Blessings. GTKK