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|Sunday, 9/26/2010 10:40 PM MDT
Regardless of the circumstances once a relationship fell apart it will not be able to go back together the way it was. You are changing all the time and he is changing all the time ... and you are no longer going through that change together. Therefore there are less and less of things in common between you to help you connect again.
It does happen sometimes that when both people's lives go through a whole cycle of changes and come to a similar vibrational point again but with much greater understanding of each other. Then people can get back together again. This however is a very rare occurrence and usually signifies a contract on a much deeper soul level to be together for the rest of your lives. Don't know what are the chances of you and your ex-boyfriend ever being together again. Regardless of that you would still have to allow both of you to evolve on your own, how ever long it may take and mean while leave it entirely up to the Guru to work it out and lead you back together again.
The question then really is only about how much time it will take ... and are you willing to spend all that time waiting or will chose to just live your life and see what happens.
Don't bring any guilt into any of your relationships. What happens happens and there should be no blame no guilt. Keep it real. That is the only thing that will make your relationship mature and truly loving if it is meant to be.