hi, whoever you are, i really admire u...i am a sikh girl in college and i have always thought that if i hold on to my morals and values then god will help me find the right guy for me who holds the same beliefs. i have been asked out and although its tempting to date like everyone else, i know that one day the right guy will come along who i can be with forever instead of dating 20 different guys. you are absolutely doing the right thing and one day you will meet the right girl for you who will make you happy. i dont understand how girls in the sikh culture can go out and give away something so sacred but trust me, there are girls who believe what you do..i am one of them and i wish you the best of luck.