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Summary of Question:	I Have No Friends
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Friday, 7/13/2007 7:41 AM MDT

Sat Sri Akal please please read

last year, i had a large circle of 'close friends' then this year, i broke friendship with 1 of the girls that i was friends with because i realised that she really wasnt a friend.this was somewhere in february.now what this girl has done is that she has sort of stole all of my other frinds, even my most closest friend with whom i was friends with since 2002.now i have only 1 friend whom i really dont consider as a friend, because i dont like her that much.now another thing is that i am a boy and have ONLY female friends, and only 1 friend who is a boy(who has abandoned me) i really need help to make new friends who are guys.but then another problem arises, people already have their own circle of friends and i am so sure that they would not like me to join their groups.another thing is that i am very religious, and i always talk of Waheguru and try to spread Bani, but no 1 seems to be interested or willing to hear.and i think that all of what i am going through is a test from Waheguru.i am so confused.i literaly have no friends, no one to joke with.no 1 except from Waheguru.i know that you will not be able to answer my question, because there really isnt a question.i just wanted some one to listen to me.the thing is that i cant talk to my mum, my dad or any of my brothers.i havnt even spoken to my Step father for 4 months because of the way he beats my mother. my younger brother hates me. my elder brother is in the uk and well no one is there for me. so my life is in complete shambles.thank you for reading. i am sorry, i have to go.
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Dear one,

Be patient with yourself. Life can be lonely and even one friend is hard to find sometimes. Immerse yourself in singing the Bani of the Guru to life your spirits.

Then see if there are students that you can teach or council in the Gurdwara or in your class. Reaching out to help others is always a great service and you will find many appreciative people coming to you.

SKKK