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Summary of Question:	Restricted From Gurudwara By My Ex
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Monday, 6/07/2004 10:02 AM MDT

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa

Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh !!

I have a unique situation for which I am seeking your help. I have been going to a gurudwara for years. My girlfriend at the time didnot go to gurudwara except may be on New Years. Now that I and her have broken up She has started going to gurudwara. She has told me she doesnot want to see me at the gurudwara because she doesnot want to remind her of me and see me. I feel that She is asking for a very high price for her pain. I like to do kirtan and seva and it gives me peace at heart but I feel very hurt for not being able to do that. What should I do? I haven't been to gurudwara in 2 months and it kills me inside. I went to gurudwara this weekend not caring about what she would say and she saw me there. Afterwards we had a huge arguement. I have told her that I am willing to do anything but can not stop going there. She disagrees.
Any suggestion regarding this situation will be greatly appreciated.

Thank You

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The Guru's house is open to anyone any time. It is not something open to argument. It just is. Go, do your kirtan and seva and pray to the Guru that there can be harmony. If she tries to argue with you, just say this topic is not open for discussion and walk away. Don't get trapped into her web of argumentation and emotional commotion. Sounds like you're lucky to be rid of her. Blessings. GTKK