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|Pregnant And Don't Know What To Do
|Love & Marriage
|Tuesday, 4/27/2010 11:43 AM MDT
Sat Nam Dear,
It sounds to me that you already made the decision within yourself.
I could tell you that what you already heard that yes, the soul only enters the body on 120th day and before that it is only a physical uninhabited shape that is inside you... but to you it is a lot more real. You have to ask yourself what your intuition tells you.
Shame is a very temporary thing. Even if things were to get difficult in your family everything will eventually change and everyone will still be happy when the baby comes.
A woman is a very strong being and a mother is even stronger. I think you can handle a possibly unpleasant period in your life when you will have to tell your parents and have the marriage arranged sooner than you thought. And who is to say it will be that unpleasant knowing in your heart that your baby, the life you have invited into this world by your and your boyfriend's love is on his or her way?
The good thing is that you don't have to be facing any of this alone. It will be you and your baby's father. It will be a very good experience for you both as well as test of your strength to face both of your families together.
We are married for a long time and no baby yet..we are in USA..if you want we can arrange your stay with us and adopt your baby ..only if you and your family is okay with that but please dont abort.get my email from moderator and contact us...It will be a great deed and with Waheguru's grace we will have a baby..thanks and take care