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Summary of Question:	Re:Angry, Tired Of The Hyprocisy And Double Standards
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Thursday, 2/08/2007 3:03 AM MST

Dear Super Singh,

You can only find love if you love yourself. Have patience ;-), and I want to add something. I am not a Amritdhari sikh, because I am not yet that strong to keep my hair. Even though I find myself Alag, I have a different perspective on relationships and about life. That doesn’t mean you are weird. You are different, because you believe in the truth we call WAHEGURU. Not trimming your beard in this society is difficult. But please, try to understand that a true lover will fall in love with YOU (your soul).
What is the deal of finding a girlfriend or a wife? Is that your main goal in life?
There is one hymn of guru nanak, I hope you will like it:

All worldly love is false
Everyone is devoted to his own comfort
Whether it’s a wife or a friend
Everyone is attached to you
Because of his own selfish ends.
It’s a strange truism
Nobody gives you company in the end.
But foolish men don’t understand it.
I caution you day after day.

Gurfateh!

A.Kaur