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Summary of Question:	Rili Important 4 Us!!
Category:	Other
Date Posted:	Saturday, 9/04/2004 9:55 PM MDT

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we're a sikh family n so religious,since my father is an amritdhari so we've been doing all thing tat teached in sikh, u knw like doing path, goin 2 g'wara n even doin kirtan @ g'wara. but since my sister enter d senior high she's been changed very rudely, u knw she's attached 2 a guy n he's muslim n not even a punjabi. gettin 2 knw this, me n my family tried our best 2 prevent her fr d'guy all r ok till she's been graduated. but now whenever her friend call she'll changed,like speak against my parents, screaming till our neighbour can hear it!! god, we r very sad 2 see her. so i ask a girl tat can read a cards n she told me tat dis guy is doin jadoo w my sis n never actually love her,he only wants her money n her virginity!! im realy sad 2 see my mom's condition,u knw sometimes my sis will scream if we dont let her go out or rcv a friend call n even she like 2 hit my mom, scratch her n do all bad things 2 her!! im really confused. bcoz of tat guy askin 4 money from her, she'll steal from us, it's juz been very terrible for us!! im affraid one day she'll runaway w tat guy, n sure ppl will talk bout us, ofcoz my prts will be depressed coz ppl knw u as a good sikh family. can u plz help me,is there any bani or anythin tat u think can help my sis so she can get out fr dis probz n forget d'guy forever, can she'll be back like before???plz help me.....im rili confused n sumtimes im thinking 2 juz let her go w d'guy coz we feel 2 tired already, my mind can't consentrate well in my college n @ work. so plz help me, im rili waitin 4 ur fast reply coz i think i rili rely on u. plz!! thx b4

gurfateh......!!

(REPLY) Sat Nam. If you looking for a quick fix for this mess, forget it. You can't lead someone else's life for her (or him). What you can do is focus on setting an example of righteous living, pray for the best for all your family, and make sure that you're not wasting your time and energy and ruining your own life! The best way to help yourself and your sister and your family is for you to get up early every morning and chant God's Name, read your banis and pray for them. You need to concentrate on your college work. To calm your mind, sit quietly with eyes closed, and be intensely aware of your breath; breathing only through your nose, think SAT as you inhale, and NAM as you exhale. Do this for 3 to 5 minutes every day and whenever you feel your mind is scattered. May God bless you and Guru guide you. SP