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Summary of Question:	Just Friends, Feelings Of Something More.
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Wednesday, 6/16/2004 5:29 PM MDT

Hi There,

I am not sure where to begin! But I have a friend and he is very close to me. We have known each other for 8 years. I helped him raise his daughter. We have flirted and kidded around with each other a lot. We slept together but only cuddled and we had a very passionate kiss once. I feel very strongly about this person. I love him with all of my heart. I feel he cares about me too. But he is with another person at this time. He told me he can't leave her because of the baby they have together. We have always had a attraction for each other. and he told his friends he wished he could find a woman as good as this girl.(Me) he mean't. But he will not leave her. even if he is miserable with her. He talks bad about her. he acts like he hates her. But he won't get with me. What should I do. Should I move on and forget about him or be patient and wait and see if they break up?
I am so frustrated and confused. Please help!

Sincerely
Fraustrated and Confused

(REPLY) Sat Nam. Move on. If you keep pinning your hopes and your future on this man, you are simply going to continue to be frustrated and confused. He has made his choice. You need to have enough self respect to stop seeing this man, and get over your emotional attachment. Spend more time with the Guru, read your banis, and get a perspective on the purpose of life. Don't ruin your life by clinging to this fantasy romance. Sorry if this answer is harsh. It is just common sense. SP