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Summary of Question:Lonliness
Category:General Sikhism
Date Posted:Friday, 2/16/2001 10:20 AM MST

Waheguru ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ki ki Fateh

My question has to do with lonliness, I am the onyl Sikh in basically my whole state and it's been very hard for me growing up. I am entering college now andd I have felt that Ive been pyscollogically damaged, becasue I don;t talk to too many people and make judgements on them before, I have a lot of regular friends. Bu the more I hang out with them the more I become materialistic, and I even have tried to interact with more Sikhs but havent found the same intrests. My question is how can I fill this void? I know god may be able to do this and I do paat every night,but I gets me very confused. it also seems that my parents don;t understand me either, they dont allow me to have any fun ex partying,playing sports and I fel like Im getting pressured by them to stay a sikh, I have thoughs of just breaking everything getting my own place and being able to do what I wan, also my parents are afraid of letting me go out to college because they think I weill vut my hair, for some reason they have no trust in me and co

ntinually put me down for mistakes i do, If I get bad grades ect, theyre trying to do the best for me but I dont believe that it is the best for me.. i have tried praying it helps me for a little bit then again things go wrong. All I know i I am very unhappy and lonely and feel like everything I accomplish is because my parents are making me,, If I get a good grade ect they will take all the credit for it. Would it beb etter for me to change scenery and stay a sikh because my parents really don't understand and t his is leading to my lonliness everywhere. Sorry this is so long I just needed someone to talk to

Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji ki fateh
Greetings to you in the Name of God the light of every soul and in the Name of Guru the life of every Sikh.

I can understand how lonely you must feel.

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