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Summary of Question:	Re: Don't Know What To Do
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Sunday, 3/05/2006 4:28 AM MST

Hai brother.

You are not the only one in this world with problems, keep that in mind. I am turning 21 years and my life was also becoming a disaster. There were some problems at school, I am in love with someone who is younger and my parents told me I can marry him, but I am not ready for this ‘big’commitment. I was wondering to Guru ji why this all happened to me. It feels very awful when you can’t control yourself and your life. Lately I was ‘talking’ with Guru ji and I need his support. I am in love with someone for the first time in my life and I want to marry him from deep down my heart. For some kind of reason I felt betrayed by god, lonely and empty from inside.
My dear brother, the only thing I can advise you is the next thing:
Believe in yourself, have faith and try to love yourself. Love guru ji and he will return happiness in your life. Have faith in him, and about the girl you are in love with. Just wish her a happy life, you are a good person, keep that in mind. You are gods gift and don’t try to stress. I know it is very easy to say ‘don’t stress’, but everything is in your own hand, your thought etc. Another thing: talk with your parents about your problem, they will understand you, after all they are your parents.
Think positive! It has helped me.